Dear
Fr. Joe: How modest (concerning dress) is modest enough?
Well, somewhere between sackcloth and Brittany Spears is probably where
we want to be. Modesty is a great word, and I am glad you asked about
it, because it seems to me that people have stopped even thinking about
it, let alone attempting to live it. It's a tough concept to explain,
but here is my best effort ...
The idea of modesty is born from a simple principle; our bodies are sacred
because they were created by God and are temples of the Holy Spirit.
If our clothes are showcases for our sexual attractiveness and a source
of distraction and the potential for sin, then we have not dressed in
a modest fashion.
From the Catechism:
Purity requires modesty, an integral part of temperance. Modesty
protects the intimate center of the person. It means refusing to unveil
what should remain hidden. It is ordered to chastity to whose sensitivity
it bears witness. It guides how one looks at others and behaves toward
them in conformity with the dignity of persons and their solidarity.
Modesty protects the mystery of persons and their love. It encourages
patience and moderation in loving relationships; it requires that the
conditions for the definitive giving and commitment of man and woman
to one another be fulfilled. Modesty is decency. It inspires one's choice
of clothing. It keeps silence or reserve where there is evident risk
of unhealthy curiosity. It is discreet. (CCC
2521-2522)
Enjoy another day in God's presence!
By Fr. Joe Krupp
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