The Real WORD:
How To Be a Peacemaker
By Brandon Jubar
"Why do I have to be the one to give in?" It's a question
I'd heard many times before. And though the situation was different, and
the names and faces of the people involved had changed, the frustration
and misunderstanding was clearly the same.
Don't Give In
Jesus
told us, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children
of God." (Matt 5:9) But what does that truly mean? Does it mean that
Jesus favors those who let others have their way without question? Does
it mean that he wants Christians to do whatever it takes to get along
with others -- even if it means going along with something we disagree
with?
Hardly. Peacemaking is not about "giving in" -- it's about calming
emotions and dealing with things in a fair manner. A peacemaker is someone
who goes the extra mile to work out a solution that everyone can live
with. And the job of a peacemaker is rarely easy!
Don't Give Up
"God alone is my rock and salvation, my secure height; I shall
never fall." (Ps 62:3)
Being a peacemaker is by no means easy. Don't give up, though! It takes
perseverance, charity, good will towards others and generally thick skin.
If being at peace with others were easy, everyone would be doing it. But
all you have to do is watch the news to see that is not the case.
When we look at the state of the world around us, it's easy to become
discouraged. How can I possibly have an impact? What could I do that would
bring peace to the world?
Just Give
Remember that we all have different roles to play within the Body of Christ.
So we need to do all that we can to make our own little corner of the
world a better place.
- Are your siblings fighting? Maybe you can intervene and help them resolve their conflict.
- Are your parents arguing? Perhaps you should ensure that they have the privacy and time they need in order to work out their differences.
- Are your friends mad at each other? Acting as a mediator might do the trick.
"I'm serious," my young friend said, and asked his question
again. "Why do I have to be the one to give in?"
"You don't need to give in, and you certainly shouldn't give up,"
I replied. "But you'll need to give of yourself. Being a peacemaker
takes a great deal of time and energy, but it will definitely be worthwhile
in the long run!"
"For the LORD loves the just and will not forsake his faithful ones."
(Ps 37:28)
Life Applications:
When have you tried to be a peacemaker?
Is it easier being a peacemaker or being confrontational?
How would your family and friends react if you became a full-time peacemaker?
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